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Saturday, March 24, 2007

women and there status in the two religions islam and christianity.







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Islam and women

Let me talk about women in Islam Allah says (004.124 If any do
deeds of righteousness, - be they male or female - and have faith, they will enter Heaven, and not the least injustice will be done to them.)
Islam gives much protection more than egg. The protection that was never given to them in the history of the world. For example there right to
· Choose who they want to marry
· Their right to inherit
· Their right to be protected by their husbands
· Their right to be given much respect more than there male counterpart.
· Made to become human beings as the men.
· Stop their killings
· Their use as commodity as presently in blue films, and firms of prostitutions
· Made their body to be expensive not to be touched by any one except who pay a special amount known as dowry.
· There mode of dressing

· Choose who she wants to marry

· The honouring of women in Islam

· In the pre Islamic period of Arabs. Every man hates his wife to born a lady for him. They hate them just because of feeding them, some says because of the incidence in bringing up women. Because they don’t want to have bastards, some even think that they are useless without knowing that they are very important. They are just taken and given to any one they like without given anything even if they like it or not. Islam teaches them to stop that. In Nigeria in some part of the country men are mends to sleep the women are the people that would go to farm look for food and so forth while the men are just enjoying them. The Africa before you finds a man with 100 wives. Marring them not because he loves them but to use them just to produce many children for him so that the wives and the children will work for him in his farm and so on. In the Europe some years back women have no right to inheritance. No one will take care of them that are why they went for prostitution. Looking for money to sustain their lives. But now Islam gives them the right to marry whom they like unless if what they like is against the teaching of Islam. It was reported during the time of the prophet a woman just wake up and fell that’s she hate her husband she told the prophet and the prophet says that he should divorced her but under one condition that she have to look for a tasteful wife to her former husband and pay all the expenses of marriage. So the prophet did this to honour the woman. Who can give a story that any religion did to honour the female the prophet (S.A.W) did no any religion did or even try to do this.


· Their right to inherit and not to be inherited
Allah sys: 004.023 Prohibited to you (For marriage) are:- Your mothers, daughters, sisters; father's sisters, Mother's sisters; brother's daughters, sister's daughters; foster-mothers (Who gave you suck), foster-sisters; your wives' mothers; your step-daughters under your guardianship, born of your wives to whom ye have gone in,- no prohibition if ye have not gone in;- (Those who have been) wives of your sons proceeding from your loins; and two sisters in wedlock at one and the same time, except for what is past; for Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful;-
004.022 And marry not women whom your fathers married, - except what is past: It was shameful and odious, - an abominable custom indeed.
004.019 O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may take away part of the dower ye have given them,-except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing, and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good.
In the ancient times women have no right to even live a sustainable life rather than even given them the right to inherit, how can a slave even get the right to inherit. The person that did not have a complete right the person that was killed derived from their homes. But when Islam came the prophet stop all this. The have forgotten when the woman and all her belongings are for the man during that time why can’t they remember. Even now the women are facing many problems resulting from raping etc why can’t they call them selves with that dirty word inhumaniterian is it not in their prison that women are being raped. Is it not in the west that women are being use as a commodity in the pornographic films i.e. blue films? But now the west are raising their voices saying the ½ of the share of a man in inheritance that is given to the woman is barbaric where as before they are not given them any thing. Let’s think in common sense a man takes care of the whole family including the human. What about the woman. Did she take care of the house if the man is around? The answer is no. for given her the half she would may be collected more than the half from her male counterpart. What if they are given the same do you thing that the man was treated right the answer is no.
In the bile women sisters don’t have right marry see (In the Bible, widows and sisters do not inherit any property or wealth, only men do {Numbers 27:1-11}
So please the west should note that Islam is the religion that gives female the best protection ever heard.


· Their right to be protected by there husbands.
Allah says: 004.034 Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all).
Islam made it compulsory upon every man to protect his wives from anything and he should guide them. But now in the Europe women do work for soldiers, F.B.I, police, C.I.D, customs, immigration officers, and secret agents and so on but Islam did not allow any woman to participate in any security duties they are one to guard not them to guide a man. Their men are to protect them. At the time of the prophet man are left behind when going for a battle a look after there women. So here how the west can say that Islam has no regards to women.

· Their right to be given much respect more than there male counterpart.
It was reported from the prophet that” a companion as the prophet who is to be respected most among his parent he said your mother he ask him again he said your mother he ask him again he said your mother he ask him again he said your father” if Islam has no regard for the women how can the prophet said that we should respect our mothers three time before calling our fathers.
In Islam if your mother disown you once it has follow you and you would never do something good in this world. But your father will do it three times before it goes to u.
So please deny the propaganda from the west about this.
· Made them to become human beings as the men.
The west always talks about the human right especially the women. But in reality. They don’t know what human right they are just saying it is. Ignorantly the reason is that, is it to leave people acting as animals is the so called human right. Please tell me. As I earlier say before women are mend as commodity for inheritance. A son to a woman can inherit her if he likes he should sell her as slave or use her as his wife wa’iyazu billah. Man using his mother as a wife. What a barbaric act. Sometime back they are just killed.
For example in the Indian nation when a girl reaches at least six years if she didn’t get married she would accused, given her brother a good food but when she ask of her own they would says until you get married. The west didn’t call them in humanitarians but they call the only religion in face of Allah, with that black word. And the ignorant Muslims supported them.
What should we call them?


· Stop their killings
Before the coming of Islam the Arabs kills there women daughters, just like that. During that time when one(s) wife gave birth to a lady he feels as if he was given a wonderful blow from a boxer. He feels totally annoyed. He feels as if he was told that he would die now. But when Islam came he stops all this and even made them to be protected more than an egg. It made them precious and even expensive
· Their use as commodity as presently in blue films, and firms of prostitutions
The west merchant use women as commodity for business that is by using them as commodity for blue films. They expose there expensive nudeness to the world so as some people enjoys. Presently in the country known as Italy, there are many companies for prostitute. U can just take a lady after fulfilling your desire u would pay through her company. Where as she would be receiving salaries. Women are just like cars for hire in the west. Yet they call there selves as humanitarians.
· There mode of dressing
Suratun Nur verse 31 Allah says “And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband's fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! Turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss.”
The women in the west suffer many rape just because of there mode of dressing. Allah says inside Qur’an that (Fair in the eyes of men is the love of things they covet: Women and sons; Heaped-up hoards of gold and silver; horses branded (for blood and excellence); and (wealth of) cattle and well-tilled land. Such are the possessions of this world's life; but in nearness to Allah is the best of the goals (To return to). How can a healthful man see awoman half naked without responding literary we know that it is no possible? So that is why female in the west must fall in that trap of raping. Allah’s saying is the only thing that can take us through. But the west faces the high rate of there raping because of there made of dressing. But they cannot understand because they think that, that is the enjoyment of the world. Covering the body of a woman is the best solution to the problems of raping in this world but many of them don’t know.
And the bible allows female to wear veils as Islam do but they refuses see {I Corinthians 11:3-10}
As Allah called them in the holy book he says: 002.018 Deaf, dumb, and blind, they will not return (to the path).
If the west will think let them do it……………………………………
Choose who she wants to marry In a well-known tradition documented by Imam Bukhari, the Prophet Muhammad is reported to have said: "A previously married woman shall not be married without being consulted and a virgin shall not be married without her consent." This statement clearly establishes the principle of the female's right to choose a marriage partner.
The decision to marry and the process of selecting a spouse are perhaps the most serious choices we make in life. It is therefore important to consult our parents or guardians, to seek their guidance, and to consider their advice. A guardian can only intervene if there exists a strong Islamic objection--one that would be acceptable to a qadi (judge). An example of a valid Islamic objection would be a marriage to an alcoholic or to a drug dealer. Differences in culture, age, ethnicity, or nationality are never acceptable objections in Islam. Neither the guardian nor anyone else can coerce a female to marry against her wishes, since Islam emphatically disallows forced marriages. This is clear from an incident in the life of the Prophet documented by the traditions Nisaa'ie. The Prophet's wife `Aishah reports that a young female came to consult the Prophet, saying," My father has married me to my cousin to raise his social standing and I was forced into it." The Prophet sent for the girl's father and then in his presence gave the girl the option of remaining married or rescinding the marriage. She responded; "O Messenger of Allah, I have accepted what my father did, but I wanted to serve a lesson to other women (that they could not be forced into a marriage).
A woman is the only one that have right to marry who she want. But the problem here is that our parent knew what is better to us more than ourselves. Now a day if our parent refuses us to marry someone we just think that it is not correct. However parent has right to guide us or to even stop the marriage
It was reported that during the prophet time a woman just woke up and feel that she don’t love her husband any more. She told the prophet he ordered her to get a tasteful to him wife to her husband and pay anything. So that he can divorce her. Here if Islam didn’t honour them how can she be given this right? Please ignore all they say and embrace Islam as the only religion of Allah.

· The honouring of women in Islam compared with that of bile.

1. The Bible Convicts Women as the original Sinners (i.e. Eve picking from the forbidden tree) {Genesis 2:4-3:24}.
The Koran Clarifies it was Adam Not Eve {Koran 7:19-25}
2. The Bible says "The Birth of a Daughter is a The Koran says both are an Equal Blessing {Koran loss" {Ecclesiasticus 22:3}. 42:49}
3. The Bible forbids women from speaking in church {I Corinthians 14:34-35}. The Koran says women can argue with the Prophet {58:1}
4. In the Bible, divorced Women are Labelled as an Adulteress, not men {Matthew 5:31-32}
The Koran does not have Biblical double standards {Koran 30:21}
5. The Bi oran, God limits the number to 4 only under certain situations (with the wife's ble Allows Multiple Wives {I Kings 11:3}
In The K permission) and prefers you marry only one wife {Koran 4:3} The Koran gives the woman the right to choose who to marry
6. "If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, he shall pay the girl's father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the girl, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives" {Deuteronomy 22:28-30}
One must ask a simple question here, who is really punished, the man who raped the woman or the woman who was raped? According to the Bible, you have to spend the rest of your life with the man who raped you.
The Prophet Muhammad Says {Volume 9, Book 86, and Number 101} Narrated by Aisha:"It is essential to have the consent of a virgin (for the marriage)".
Would the Non-Muslim men reading this prefer the Women they know to be Christian or Muslim?
The western nations who call this have forgotten the unlawful things that the females are facing in the Indian nation. For example, if a human husband dies, that means that she is dead too. As in there tradition thay would burn the corpes of the deciesed, when burning it, they would burn the dead body together with her i.e. his wife. In some part of the sourthern Nigeria, if ones husband died, the water that is used the wash the deciesed, the woman must drink the water for some period of time. If she refuses they would tell her that, she killed him.